From the monthly archives:

February 2009

It’s Okay Friday

by Megan on February 27, 2009

I saw this over at Umm… Now what? & Not Your Plain Jane, so I decided to do it since I don’t really have anything better to say today.

Glamour magazine has a section titled “It’s Okay…” where they give things that it’s okay to do. So, here’s my list.

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It’s okay to…

-shower the night before work just so you can sleep in that extra 20-30 minutes the next morning.
-twitter about things that aren’t really that important.
-”stalk” people on facebook. Hey, we all do it!
-blog while you should be working on a spreadsheet at work.
-marry young and decide not to have kids until several years down the road (I’m talking, like, five or six years here).
-cry for no reason at all, except that it just makes you feel so much better, even if you weren’t feeling “bad” in the first place.
-show up to work a little late and leave several minutes early.
-watch old episodes of Grey’s Anatomy for hours at a time.
-sleep in and stay in your pajamas on a Saturday.
-tell stories about your childhood, while laughing hysterically.
-go to bed early, even if it does make you feel old.

I’m thinking this could turn into a Friday thing? Maybe. Maybe not.

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optimism is my anti-drug

by Megan on February 25, 2009

It’s been a while, I know. Every time I clicked on ‘new post,’ I’ve stared at the little white box, all the while clicking away in hopes of coming back later with something insightful to say. Alas, I have nothing insightful; however, I do have updates of sorts along with a few things on my mind.

As I write this, I’m sitting in my very own cubicle at work (which I finally got after over four weeks of working here!), and I must say, I do love it. Not only do I have my own computer, but I have my own personal phoneline! Not too shabby, eh? I’m enjoying my job, and I keep hoping that the eight-week postion will turn into something more because I’m nowhere near ready to leave; plus, I dread a job hunt in this economy.

Speaking of job hunt, Josh is still unable to find one. He has searched daily, and there literally is nothing hopeful. I think he is going to a career center today in hopes of finding something, even if it is a factory job of sorts–hey, it’s better than nothing! Like I keep telling him, it will only be temporary. We both plan to go back to school, and we’ll be on our way to wonderful careers in several years. Though he is out of a job at the moment, everything is quite alright. I’m making decent money now, so we are living fine. It helps that we’re still living with his parents, so our bills are minimal. Soon, we’ll be living in their basement, and we’ll have our very own space.

Moving to the basement was the plan all along, but it needed to be finished, and plans were halted momentarily. Last week, though, Josh and his uncle spent a day clearing out everything; this week, they’re going to be painting and eventually, they will start the wiring process before building walls. We’re going to have a bedroom, living room, and kitchen (and probably a bathroom with shower in the future), so it will be like our own little apartment. It will be nice to get out of the bedroom and into our own space.

Luckily, I’ve been optimistic lately, and I know most of it has to do with having such a great job. I’m even considering changing my major to something in human resources or business so that I can stay in this field (with higher pay, of course). I actually filled out my fafsa and received a letter stating that the state is willing to give me a grant of $765 each semester, so that is a huge weight lifted off my shoulder! I’m still hoping to take a class or two this summer (in which I will have to pay myself), but that money will be great toward the fall and spring semesters.

In other news, I want to mention a little writing project that is being started by Ashley over at Writing to Reach You. She can explain it best, so take a look at her posts on the subject. The blog will be launched on Monday, so expect a link.

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Simplicity

by Megan on February 14, 2009

Many people despise Valentine’s Day; however, I am not one of those people. I am somewhat apathetic about the entire idea. While it’s nice to have a day that is designated to relationships and all things love, people do go a little overboard. Besides, in my relationship, my husband and I are sure to say “I love you” daily, and we do little things every once in a while to remind each other of our love. We don’t wait until Valentine’s Day to do so.

At first, I wanted to go out tonight, but after much consideration, I asked Josh if we could just stay home. He happily obliged, and we plan to hook up the super nintendo as well as watch movies later while eating popcorn and drinking coke–something we did on our first Valentine’s Day together as well as what we did many times while we had our apartment. This is our first Valentine’s being married, and I’d much rather spend it alone with my husband rather than in a crowded restaurant or movie theater. Plus, we’ll spend close to no money. And our gifts to each other? Just being together.

In other news, I know it has been a couple weeks since my last post. I am about to start my fourth week at work, and I’m absolutely loving it. Everyone at the office is very laid back, and I’m able to wear jeans and a t-shirt if I want. It feels great to have weekends off, and once this eight-week position is up, I’m hoping I can transfer to another office because this job has been such a positive change in my life. I enjoy my co-workers, and I actually wake up looking forward to work rather than thinking up excuses for why I should just stay in bed. It’s a nice change.

Anyway, I hope everyone has a happy Valentine’s Day–whether you’re single or not, remember this: it’s a day to appreciate ALL of your relationships, not just romantic ones.

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