Why I Love the South
I’m not sure if I’ve mentioned it in the past, but I was born in Florida and lived there until 2001. (Except for a year or two in the early 90s when we lived in Kansas because Dad was in the army.) My parents decided to move to Tennessee on a whim–Mom basically said, “I want to move there,” so we put our house up for sale, packed up everything we owned, and with little to no money, we made the move to Tennessee. Honestly, before I moved here, I was so upset because I thought Tennessee would be full of ignorant, toothless people. (Um, stereotype much?) The first few months were tough (financially as well as emotionally), but I grew to love it here. I love the south. (Yeah, even though Florida is the most southern state, Husband still calls me a ‘yankee’–haha!) So, even though I don’t have a southern accent, I claim that I’m FROM the south. (I’ve only been to New York once as well as Vegas/California once, so I really can’t say I love the south MORE than any other region.)
What do I love the most about the south?
Sweet tea. Um, hi. I’m obsessed. Sweet, iced tea is the best on a hot summer day, I’m not even kidding.
Southern boys are gentlemen. Well, most of them. (One reason I love Husband so much.) Florida boys? They had no manners. These Tennessee boys, though? Are the sweetest. They’ll open doors for you; they’ll help an elderly lady out in the grocery store when she drops a can of vegetables, but they’ll be sure to ask first as to not offend (Husband did this last week); they say “please” and “thank you.”
The cookin’ is amazing! Fried foods, galore. Fried chicken, fried okra, fried squash, fried zucchini. It’s all good. It seems like everyone knows how to cook. (Husband is an amazing cook, luckily.)
Everyone has a garden. Or so it seems. Husband’s grandparents have a HUGE garden that contains potatoes, zucchini, cabbage, okra, squash, tomatoes, lettuce, corn, beans, etc… During the warm months, we basically never have to shop for vegetables. I mean, why buy frozen stuff when you can have fresh corn on the cob? Husband’s family also grows berries to make jams and the like. Whatever is left over, we freeze to have later on in the year.
There’s more ‘country’ than city. Okay, so I have a love/hate relationship with this aspect. I hate that I have to drive an hour away to any major city, or even 30-45 minutes to a grocery store, but it has its perks. Being a girl that comes from a city in Florida, I was used to the busy-busy lifestyle. I realized, after coming to a tiny town in Tennessee, that I feel much more relaxed here. I don’t feel like I always have to be on the go. And? I never take going to the movies for granted … Because like I said, it’s an hour drive to the closest theater! (We do have a drive-in, though, about thirty minutes away.)
The southern drawl. Though I’ve lived here for eight years, I haven’t gained that drawl. My accent is a mixture, I guess, of southern and northern–since Florida is full of people from all over the country. Husband has lived in the same town his ENTIRE life, and he has a slight southern accent. (He makes fun of me for how I say things sometimes.) “Y’all” is an everyday phrase around here.
There are so many more things that I love about the south–Tennessee, specifically, but now it’s your turn.
What do you love about the south? Or better yet, what do you love about the region that you live in?








ashley
Ohhh I miss the south for all of those reasons! I only lived in Atlanta two years, texas another two but there was something so nice, so laid back about it down there. And those accents!! I’m a particular fan of the south carolina accent, one of my coworkers has it and its so cute.
One thing I loved? How friendly everyone is. Having lived primarily in some of the bitchiest states ever (NYC, Connecticut), its so nice to have strangers wave at you when they pass in the car, say hi to you on the street, etc.
nora
I have always enjoyed the Southern lifestyle. I’m not entirely sure what region I’m in… Midwest but it’s a bit of a blend of all regions if you ask me. We have fried food but we also have the warm, comfort, thicky and creamy foods that I tend to associte with the North.
I like southern accents. I kind of wish I had one.
And a drive-in? How cool is that!?
Megan/SomewhatVoluble
@ashley: Everyone is wonderful in the south (unless they’re not from the south, haha); when we first moved here, I wondered why everyone waved as they drove by. Now, I’m used to it, and I do it, too!
@nora: I’ve actually never been to the drive-in (though I hope to go soon). I think the food is just so amazing. Comfort food is the best!
Amber
Aww that’s great that you’ve found your niche there. I’m from a small community too and I always feel more relaxed when I go home. Even though I LOVE living in the city right now I know I’ll settle down in a smaller place.
I love the southern-drawl that some Americans have! Not that I run into people who have it THAT often, but occasionally when I worked in restaurants they would be travelling through Canada and I would have the opportunity to serve them. I found that they were SO outgoing too! Hilarious. I LOVE where I live right now because it’s got mountains, lakes, hot weather, SO much to do and it’s just so beautiful!
Megan/SomewhatVoluble
@Amber: Oh yeah! I forgot to mention the landscape in what I love about the south. I live in the valley, so there are mountains all around us. (Beautiful, green mountains!) We have boulders and stuff, too, though they’re not huge. Lots of lakes (I work right next to one!), creeks, and rivers nearby, too.
Kristin
I, also, started out in Florida and then moved to the “real” South (Georgia). People always call me a yankee too! At first I was really freaked out about how polite people are here, or how strangers will just say “Hi!” to you on the street like they’ve known you for years, but now I LOVE it. I don’t think I’ll ever move back, even if I do miss the beach like crazy! I think the thing I love the most about moving from Florida to the South is that now I get experience real seasons, but it’s still hot enough to satisfy my floridian spirit in the summer. But, oh, the leaves in the fall just make life perfect.
Tiffany
I definitely love, love, love the South. I’ve been here all my life, split between Kentucky and Tennessee (the latter’s my fav, though.) I think the accents are my favorite, mostly because I have one, and I enjoy not being teased about it!
Ashley
Can’t say what I love about the South, since I’ve barely even been there. I love the weather and scenery of California. I also love the diversity.
Rachie
I am from and have always lived (and probably will forever live) in South western Kentucky. Therefore, I know everything you’re talking about and completely agree. I love it down here and can’t imagine calling any place other than the south home.
Ellie
You gotta love the south. I absolutely do! The sweet tea, southern gentlemen, and cooking are the best.
Though I will say that I could do with more alternating weather patterns. Snow. I’d like to have snow each year. Nothing drastic or terrible, just a little more than flurries. Also, could we please lose the insane heat and humidity? It does nothing for my hair or mood.
LiLu
Please tell me you’ve had Firefly Sweet Tea Vodka…
BEST STUFF ON EARTH.
Megan/SomewhatVoluble
@LiLu: Yes, I have. I actually have a bottle in my cabinet! It’s amazing with lemonade.
E.P.
Can I pretty much second this post? Because I feel you on it completely, minus the sweet tea. (I was never a tea fan, even though I was born and raised in TN, went to college in Louisiana and now reside in MS.)
I love the gardens, the cooking, the country-ness of everything in the city, and the drawl. I never thought I had one, but apparently, I do.
Je
I’m a southern girl at heart! My dad’s side of the family is from Florida, near the border of Georgia. I grew up eating southern food – hushpuppies, chicken fried steak, okrah, grits for breakfast, etc. And sweet tea for EVERY meal. Breakfast lunch and dinner! Now I have a jug of it at all times in my fridge. In fact, I’m drinking it right now! It’s the best hangover cure – and calorie free if made with Stevia or Splenda!